You’ve probably heard this phrase before. On TV, in the movies or maybe in real live either being said(hopefully not to you) or saying it yourself to someone else.
The thing is a lot of people “peak” in high school, or college or in their first few years in the working world. The problem is that they tend to sink into this depressing and utterly black void of mediocrity and complacency from which they usually never return.
They complain about their current situations; the boss on their back; the screaming kids; the complaining spouse; the home that has a million things that need getting done but there’s never any time – you know, life.
I’m not going to tell you how to time manage your household chores.
Or how to better kiss your bosses ass.
Or how to muzzle your children.
Or even how to appease your spouse(you SHOULD know how to do most of these things).
I’m going to tell you that like most things in life there are peaks and troughs. Unbeknownst to most, the power to control this wave ride is mostly up to you. The key is to try and strive to peak at least once a day.
Let me tell you, I have had my share of troughs – years of them.
There was a good chance I wouldn’t have came back from them either.
But through a slow and steady progression I fight my way back(yes I am still fighting) to my “peak-i-ness”(trademarked), in work, at home and within myself.
No matter what shit happens in your day, you always have the ability to peak again and again. I peak in my work after a great shoot with the fantastic images I capture. I peak with my son when I take a break to play outside on our lawn. I peak in my marriage when I drop the little guy off with grandma and take my wife on a shopping trip.
Sure these don’t sound like the peaks that I had in high school.
But I’m not in high school anymore. Are you?
The difference is that my peaks are higher than I ever could have imagined and they will last me a lifetime of memories.
So fuck peaking in high school – that’s for losers, posers, haters and assholes.
PEAK EVERY DAY.
Put that in your mantra and say it.
What do you do to peak? Have you peaked today? What are your future peaks?